Book Review: Love Food & Live Well

How could I not want to review a book with the title "Love Food & Live Well"? I have struggled with food issues since I was a teenager and sadly most of the books I have read that have dealt with food addiction have not really helped me in the long run. Why? Because food addiction goes much deeper than simple dieting, and I know that from personal experience. Chantel Hobbs also knows this truth from personal experience and that is one reason she chose to write the book "Love Food & Live Well".

This is Chantel's third book that addresses and deals with food related issues. I actually read her first book "Never Say Diet" several years ago and I loved it. It was real eye opening and very encouraging. Her first book told about her experience of losing two hundred pounds and keeping it off. Chantel now is a fitness expert and she travels around sharing the good news about how to become a more healthy person through eating right and exercising.

One of the things that I liked about Chantel's first book was that she talked about being a woman of faith (a Christian). In her new book, "Love Food & Live Well" she goes more into detail about her relationship with Jesus and how He changed her life. As a Christian I can totally relate to how Jesus is really the key to lifelong freedom from food addiction, and Chantel lets her readers know the same thing.

Now I realize that not everyone who picks up this book will be a Christian and I believe that even if you are not a person of faith you can glean wonderful practical information about how to live a healthy lifestyle through proper nutrition and exercise. Chantel has included a whole section in the book with picture demonstrations of how to complete several different exercises. Also included in the book is a detailed account of the 80:20 ratio when it comes to eating. I truly believe if you follow the 80:20 plan that you can live a healthy lifestyle and maintain a healthy weight.

I highly recommend this book as it is loaded with practical helpful information on nutrition and exercise. As a Christian I love it because Chantel reminded me that if I ever am going to be truly free from food addiction it will be because I surrender control to God, and then allow Him to set me free.

Thank you Waterbrook Multanomah for this opportunity to review this book. I loved it!
(Waterbrook Multanomah provided me a complimentary copy of this book in return for this review...opinions expressed are mine).

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Blessings...

Thanksgiving Thankful Thursday

I have participated in the "Thankful Thursday" meme for a long time now, but today I figured I would make my thankful list a special thankful "Thanksgiving" list today. I have much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving, but I will limit my list to my top ten.

1. Life...that God has given me life for these past 41 years. After I turned 40 I feel like I have been more thankful for each day God blesses me with.

2. Health... I have lost two people that were close to me to cancer in the last month. I have been reminded to be thankful for each day that I am healthy.

3. My mother... Those close to me know that my mother has been so very critically ill over the last 3 years. She had 3 major surgeries, one of which was a quadruple by pass over the last 2 years. Doctors told her that she was only hours away from dying when she had a heart attack. God has given her over 2 years of life after her near death experience. She still has serious on-going health issues, but she is thanking God each day that He gives her life, and I am thankful too.

4. My husband... Over the last couple of months, I have really just appreciated what a gift I have in my husband. I have watched him allow God to work in his life and I have seen him grow and mature in his spiritual walk. He is a hard worker, a good father, and he is self-less when it comes to giving to his family. I love you Honey :)

5. My newest home-bible study group of women... Currently, I am leading a group of eight women through Jennie Allen's newest bible study "Stuck". I am so excited to see what God will and wants to do with the group of awesome sisters in Christ. I love all these women already :)

6. My boys... Parenting is super hard work, and the older my kids get I am finding out that things get even harder. However, they bring me much joy, laughter and love. God gave me these 3 boys, and He purposed that I would be their mom...what an unspeakable privilege and blessing.

7. Lord willing, I will be going to Florida with my family for Christmas. I have not seen my extended family for over a year. I can't wait to see them all.

8. My job... I absolutely love love love my job. I get to teach Pre-K kids and they are so precious, energetic and delightful. I love teaching, but I think the thing I like best about my job is working with 5 Christian women that encourage me and make me laugh my head off :)

9. My Fwend... I don't get to see her very often because she lives in New York. This year our lives have been busy and I have not got to talk with her as much as I normally have, but I know that she is always there for me. She is growing in her relationship with Jesus and it inspires me. I love you Fwend!!!

10. Jesus... I can't think of words great enough to express how thankful I am for Jesus. I know that in my daily life I often neglect and forget stop and thank Jesus for what He has done in my life. I am selfish and self absorbed, but Jesus always takes me back and reminds me of who I can be in Him. I think I am finally beginning to grasp that life is worth living because of Jesus, and that Heaven is worth going to not so much because it is Paradise, but because Jesus will be there. Jesus thank you for being patient with me and opening my eyes to Your truth. If You will it I will be blessed to discover who You are in the coming years. Thank you for giving Your life to me.

Thankful Thursday

I so enjoyed doing the "Thankful Thursday" meme a couple of weeks ago, so I am back again with my list of things I am thankful for this week.

1. I am thankful for the upcoming women's bible study that I will host in my home beginning next week. A handful of women will be joining me. (We will be doing Jennie Allen's bible study "Stuck")

2. I went to a bible conference at a small church about a week ago and I really feel like the Lord spoke to me about changes I need to make in my life. I was encouraged and challenged at the same time.

3. On the same note, I am thankful for the conference speakers that had such a love for God and His glory.

4. My hubby already raked half (30 bags) of leaves from our yard... less for me to help with :)

5. We will be getting carpet very soon. We had a flood in our basement during the summer and we have been without carpeting since.

6. McDonald's peppermint mochas :)

7. Lord willing, our family will be vacationing in Florida during Christmas. I can't wait to see my family.

8. My cousin, Chris... Her life is a testimony of loving Jesus...she inspires me.

Thanks for stopping by...what are you thankful for today?

Tyndale Book Review- "Whole"

Tyndale provided me with a complimentary copy of Lisa Whittle's newest book release,
"{W}hole", and in turn I agreed to write a review for the book. Up until this point I had never really heard of Lisa Whittle and her ministry, but the title of the book intrigued me. Basically the premise of the book is that we all have "holes" in our lives, but Jesus can make our holes "whole".

Overall, I really liked Lisa's book and I would definitely read other books of Lisa's in the future. I think my favorite part of the book is Lisa's writing style and how she writes with such authenticity. I was engaged from the very beginning of the book and for me that is when I make my decision of whether or not I can actually finish a book. Well, I finished the book.

Another thing I appreciated about Lisa was that she was very vulnerable with what she chose to share in the book. She shared personal stories about her life, including a very painful story about what happened to her father. One of the beautiful parts of the book is that you get to see how Jesus worked through those painful situations to bring healing and wholeness to Lisa and her family.

The book is broken up into 8 chapters including an introduction and conclusion chapter. The 6 chapters inbetween deal with 3 areas (religion, roles, and experiences) we can develop "holes" in
and how Jesus can make each of those areas whole. An excerpt from the back of the book reads, "In Whole, Lisa calls you to take an honest look at your holes, discover how to fill them with God's presence, and get to a real and vibrant place of wholeness instead." I could not have said it better myself.

In closing, "Whole" is a refreshing book that is full of scripture and pratical, biblical steps that readers can take in order to grow in their relationships with Jesus. You will feel encouraged and challenged to seek the "wholeness" and healing that Jesus provides. Most importantly Lisa reminds us that the most important thing in our lives, outside of our religion, roles, and experiences is that we have a solid relationship with our Lord and Savior, Jesus.

"Little Angels"

I had the opportunity to get a sneak peek at one of Roma Downey's new ventures. I loved watching Roma for years on "Touched by an Angel" so when offered the opportunity to take a sneak peek at her newest project, "Little Angels", I jumped at the chance. I cannot say it better than the makers of "Little Angels", so below I copied and pasted the information about this new project.

Discover the joy of learning and friendship with a heavenly new collection! From Executive Producer Roma Downey ("Touched by an Angel") and Writer Phil Lollar ("Adventures in Odyssey") comes the much-anticipated faith-based educational series, LITTLE ANGELS, soaring onto DVD from Twentieth Century Fox Home Entertainment.

LITTLE ANGELS is an animated DVD series created exclusively for preschool-aged children to teach not only practical learning skills, like ABCs and 1,2,3s, but also to introduce them to the spiritual, moral and ethical principles of the Bible. Of course, we think it's terrific! (We might be biased...) But don't just take our word for it - for the first time in their organization's history, MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) has awarded a Seal-of-Approval to LITTLE ANGELS.

Pre-school twins Alex and Zoe are blessed to have eight Little Angels watching over them - literally! These Little Angels "live" on the ceiling of their bedroom, painted there so they are the first things the kids see when they wake up in the morning and the last thing they see before they fall asleep at night. The angels come to life when the children need them most, helping guide them through the challenges of their young lives.

You can visit the website by visiting www.littleangels.com

Blessings to all as you take of your own "little angels" :)

"Stuck" Bible Study

Here is the link to the trailer about the DVD bible study "Stuck" that I wrote a review for in an earlier post. Check it out...

Book Sneeze Book Review: "Stuck" Bible Study

Since I began my experience as a book/resource reviewer for "Book Sneeze" (Thomas Nelson), I have not been as excited to receive a resource as the "Stuck" DVD based bible study. I was intrigued by the title, and I also lead Women's bible studies in my home so I knew I would request this resource as soon as it became available. I am so glad I did. "Stuck" gets my highest recommendation of any of the resources I have reviewed so far.

"Stuck's" author is Jennie Allen, and up to this point I had never even heard of her in the world of Women's Ministry. Well, I can tell you after reviewing "Stuck" I am sure Jennie Allen will be a new and upcoming leader/teacher in Women's Ministry. As I watched Jennie's teaching DVDs I fell in love with her teaching style. She is passionate, authentic and biblically sound. What more could you ask for in a teacher? (Well, I am sure there is more, but Jennie Allen will not disappoint you).

"Stuck" is set up as an 8 week DVD session study. The Bible study kit includes the 8 session DVD, a copy of the study guide (used for personal study), a leader's guide, and a set of conversation cards that coincide with the 8 weeks. The study guide is a bit different from some of the other studies I have done in the past, and that is a good thing. Jennie challenges her participants to dig deep into God's Word each week. After the "study" portion of the guide Jennie has included "projects" that are very interactive for each individual to complete. Each week's study maybe completed in one sitting, or one can break the study up and complete it in multiple settings.

The leader's guide is set up in a way that basically takes all the "work", or shall I say "fear" out of leading. Jennie walks her leaders right through the entire study so they can feel confident when they lead their own group of women through "Stuck".

My favorite part of this whole study are the "Conversation Cards" that Jennie has included in her study. Jennie has come up with multiple questions on each week's theme (IE: broken, mad, discontent, etc) and a weekly scripture to support each week's theme. She always wants to make sure that the final word on any subject comes from God, as it should be. In my experience, women love getting together and asking each other questions about life and their spiritual journeys. This study lends itself to going deep with your group if you choose that path. I think that is where true growth happens.

I think I should end my review here because honestly I could go on and on about how great this study is. I give it a 5 out of 5 stars. I will actually be beginning this study with a small group of women in my home very soon. Thank you Book Sneeze for providing this resource to me. I am ever so thankful.

(Book Sneeze provided "Stuck" to me complimentary and I in turn had to write a review).

Who is Out There?

Hey Blogville,

If you have never commented and you are a regular (or somewhat regular) visitor of this blog, I would love to meet you. I know I have a very small number of people that visit from time to time but I would love to know who is out there.... I am so social :) So leave me a comment and I will stop by your blog to say hello as well.

I am planning on writing more on the blog in the coming months so hopefully we can keep in contact through the bloggy...

Blessings,
Kim

Thankful Thursday

Well today I am going to start back up with my "Thankful Thursday" meme. I sure have missed Thankful Thursdays and the fellowship of other "Thankful Thursday-ers" :) This year I wanted to write more at my blog as I feel like I have a lot to say, but not a lot of time. So "TT" will help me keep up with my goal.

I will keep it simple with a top ten list of things I am thankful for this week.

1. On a sad note, my husband lost his best friend to cancer this past week... one tiny thankful in this difficult situation was that my husband found an airline ticket for 127 dollars last minute. Originally the tickets were costing anywhere from 800 to 1300 dollars. We are thanking God that he provided a way financially for my husband to be with his best friend's family.

2. To continue on number 1 a bit. My hubby's friend was a believer, and even though many are grieving for him, we do not grieve as those with no hope... We are so sad to be without him, but we know he is with his Jesus. Our Jesus...

3. I realized today that the Lord has been so good to me when it has come to my physical health... I have not been really sick (doctor's care) for over 2 years. I am blessed to have my health.

4. I belong to a Gym and I like to actually workout at that gym :)

5. I have a job I love with coworkers I adore :)

6. I am thankful to be a part of 3 blogging for books programs in which I get to keep all the books and resources I review.

7. I am thankful that I finally purchased Ann Voskamp's book "one thousand gifts"...I just began it and already I know I am going to love it.

8. I am thankful that my boys are getting to attend AWANAS at a local church. I was involved in AWANAS when I was a child and the program is wonderful.

9. My youngest child is coming out of his shell... he is surprising me.

10. My middle child conquered a fear by completing a task that he wanted to quit on.

Ok, that is all for now. Feel free to tell me something you are thankful for this week. I would love to hear it. Blessings all...

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Blog Book Review for "Dug Down Deep"

Recently I signed up to review books for WaterBrook Multnomah and I am so glad I did. My first selection for my complimentary copy was the book "Dug Down Deep" (Building Your Life on Truths That Last) by Joshua Harris. Before I read this book, all I knew about Joshua Harris was that he was the guy "that kissed dating goodbye" :) I didn't realize that he is currently serving as the senior pastor of a church in Maryland, and that he is an amazing author with a gift for writing.

If I had to rate this book I would give it a 5 star rating out of a possible 5 stars. It was that good. Actually I was a little nervous to read this book because it is a book about theology. Words like orthodoxy and doctrine are discussed and better yet explained in this book. I always felt that only theologians could understand doctrine, but Joshua Harris helped me to understand what doctrine is and how I could actually live out the truths that are in God's Word.

Harris breaks down the basics of faith-God, scripture, Jesus, the Cross, salvation, sanctification, the Holy Spirit, and the church (taken from back cover of book). I have been a Christian for over 25 years and I still did not have a knowledge or understanding about some of the things that Joshua Harris explained to me in his book. After reading this book, I actually feel that my faith in God has been strengthened because I now understand key verses in scripture that I had not really understood before. As the title of the book states Joshua Harris wants his readers to "dig deep".

"Dug Down Deep" will be a book that I keep and refer to in the future as I study my Bible. This book is also a great book for Small Group studies because there is a discussion guide with probing questions in the back of the book for every chapter. I would actually love to go through this book as a study with a group of my peers. This book also contains a heavy amount of scripture in it which I think is a must if you were going to use it as a Bible study book in a Small Group.

In closing I think this book will appeal to all readers, not just professing Christians. I say this because Joshua Harris gives his personal testimony about how he began his spiritual journey as an "apathetic church kid" but as a young student developed a burning passion to truly know God. Joshua Harris also is very candid and shares some of his own personal struggles which helps him relate to his readers in an authentic way. I think those people who do not have a faith would find Joshua Harris refreshing. If not refreshing, at least honest and real.

Thank you WaterBrook Multonomah for this wonderful book.

(In exchange for the complimentary copy of this book, I had to write and post a review)

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Hey Blog Friends,

Please take a second to click on this LINK and visit the "A Martha Heart" website. I wrote a fun article that is interactive in nature. I would love to have you answer the question I posed today :)

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Book Sneeze Book Review: "One Call Away"

I don't know much about football, but I do know who Kurt Warner is. Over the past few years I have heard some stories about his wife, Brenda as well. I know that the Warners are professing Christians and I am always encouraged when people who are well known and in the public eye stand up for Jesus.

In August, Book Sneeze (Thomas Nelson) featured Brenda Warner's new book, "One Call Away" as a choice for bloggers to read and review. Book Sneeze gave me a complimentary copy of Brenda's new book and I in turn had to read and post a review of the book. I am so glad I chose this book for review.

"One Call Away (Answering Life's Challenges with Unshakable Faith)" is a memoir. I always enjoy when I get to read some one's life story from beginning to end (or up to present time)especially when it is a good story. Well, I can tell you Brenda's life is a good story! This book is a page turner, but when I say her life is a good story it is not always because everything in her life was good. Actually it is quite the opposite. Many good things did happen to Brenda Warner, but most of the book and most of her life story is filled with very tragic circumstances.

Just in case you are not familiar with Brenda's story I will not give out too many details in this review as it is better to let the story unfold as you read the book. As I stated above, Brenda's life was filled with many tragic situations, but the best part of this book is that the reader gets to see Brenda's faith in God played out. Her faith was tested many times throughout her life, and even though it wasn't easy, Brenda eventually (sometimes quickly) put her faith in God and her relationship with Jesus Christ. I am not sure she would have survived everything that happened to her (at least mentally) if Jesus had not been the center of her world.

Another thing that I found refreshing about this book was that Brenda really put everything out there for her readers to discover. The good, the bad and the ugly. She was real about her sins and shortcomings (as well as her husband) and she wasn't afraid to admit where she got some things wrong. It felt as if I was invading the Warner's privacy as she shared many of her stories, but I found myself relating to her in many ways. Her authenticity was refreshing in a world that can be "fake" at times.

I could go on about this book and share more of the things that I thought were really great about it , but I will end here and give my full recommendation of Brenda's new book, "One Call Away". It is a must read.

Blessings and thanks again Book Sneeze!!!

"Women of Faith" Recap

NATALIE GRANT... LOVE HER!!!

ANGIE SMITH-LOVE HER TOO!!!

NICOLE JOHNSON

SHELIA WALSH

MY TRAVELING BUDDY!!!

If someone offered you free tickets to go to a "Women of Faith" conference what would you say? Well I hope that your answer would be a resounding "YES". Book Sneeze (Thomas Nelson Publishing) offered me 2 free tickets to a "WOF" event anywhere in the United States, and I gladly accepted. In return for the complimentary tickets I agreed to write a review of the conference.

I invited one of my good friends to go to the conference with me, and we headed to Indianapolis a couple weekends ago. Before this event, the last time I went to a "Women of Faith" conference was probably about 8 or 9 years ago. I had heard that the original team of speakers (or at least the team I had seen last) had divided up so they could cover more of the United States. Honestly I was a little sad because I wanted to see all the original "WOF" speakers together. However, it didn't take me too long to fall in love with the new "WOF" speakers and realize that nothing was lacking from the conference... NOTHING :)

The theme of this year's conference that I attended was "Imagine". Throughout the entire event that little word "imagine" popped up here and there as the speakers gave their talks. I forgot how much I really enjoyed the "WOF" events, and it didn't take me long to immerse myself in the atmosphere of love and encouragement amongst thousands of women. I laughed out loud and cried more times that I wanted to...Actually that is not true, I LOVE TO CRY :)

I totally love the "WOF" conferences and I highly recommend this event to any woman or man, although a man might feel real out of place :) But before I close I just want to give a little informal shout out to the "Women of Faith" event team.

-Shelia Walsh- Love her, and her rendition of "How Great Thou Art" brought the whole arena to a place of worship.

-Lisa Harper- This was the first time I saw Lisa. She is a wonderful story teller and she is funny (in a good way :)

-Luci Swindoll- Luci is fearless and her whole life has been an adventure. She is honest and she is a hoot. I laughed many times as she spoke.

-Nicole Johnson-I have always enjoyed Nicole as the dramatist of the "WOF" conferences. She is so talented, but I especially loved that at this conference she shared her personal testimony. Nicole Johnson as Nicole Johnson :)

-Angie Smith- This was the first time that I had seen Angie Smith and she was a new speaker to the "WOF" team. Oh my goodness, Angie was delightful and her personal testimony was heart breaking, but through her sorrow God's light shined through. She was witty and it was just a joy to listen to her.

I could go on and on about the conference, but I will stop here. I am already thinking of planning another trip to a "WOF" event in 2012. I need to start saving my dollars and may I suggest that if you are reading this blog entry you should save your money too.

Thanks again Book Sneeze. I had the most wonderful time :)

Tyndale Book Review-"Courageous"

Oh my goodness, I just finished the book "Courageous", and it was FABULOUS!!! If you are thinking, "hey isn't that the name of the new movie coming out in September from the makers of "Facing the Giants" and "Fireproof", then you would be correct. If you have no idea what I am talking about it doesn't matter because this book is wonderful, even if you never see the movie.

Tyndale provided me a complimentary copy of the book, and in turn I must submit a review of the book (Thanks Tyndale). I debated whether or not to read the book, as I was so looking forward to seeing the movie and letting the storyline unfold as I watch the movie. But, curiosity got the best of me and I decided to read the book first. I am so glad I did. Randy Alcorn (author of Heaven) is the author of this book, based on the movie by the Kendrick Brothers. Alcorn states that about 20% was actually taken directly from the script and then he came up with the rest in order to turn it into a novel.

I don't want to give any of the details of the storyline away because I don't want to spoil it for those that are waiting to see the movie first. However, I will say that this book has more twists and turns that will keep your head spinning (in a good way of course). You jump head into the drama of the story in the first few pages, and it keeps getting better and better. I pride myself on being able to figure out a storyline, but this book kept surprising me as the story progressed. Alcorn is a terrific writer, and the Kendrick brothers gave him a great script that he was able to turn into a great book.

If a book can make you cry, then this book will require you to keep a box of tissues near. Don't worry you will smile too as there are some funny moments scattered throughout the dramatic storyline.

The thing that I love the most about this book is that the gospel is presented clearly, and throughout the whole book you are pointed back to Jesus. The book portrays very difficult subject matter, and Alcorn never states that if a person believes in Jesus all his problems will be solved, but he shows that Jesus can walk with us throughout our most difficult times in life and give us peace.

If I had to evaluate what the main theme of this book would be it would be the awesome responsibility of "fathers" in society today. Although the focus is on the role of fathers, this book will speak to all people (women, children, single, married, divorced, lonely, hurting, etc). I highly recommend this book, and now I cannot wait to see the movie.

Thanks again Tyndale for the opportunity to read this book!

Headed to Indy to see Women of Faith

Hey Blogville,

I am beyond excited that I will be heading to Indy in less than two weeks to see the Women of Faith speakers. Book Sneeze/WOF have graciously supplied me with 2 free tickets and I am beyond thrilled. I will be blogging about my experience at Women of Faith and also will be using Facebook to upload pictures (maybe video snippets) of the event live.

I have been to the WOF conferences several times in the past, but it has probably been about 7 years or more since I have attended a conference. This year the Women of Faith speakers have split up (not the bad split up :) so they can cover more of the United States. What a wonderful idea!!!

There are 2 conferences this year: "Over the Top" and "Imagine". If you are interested in attending a "WOF" event, click on the video link above and you will be directed to their website. Or if you have never attended an event, but are interested in finding out what "Women of Faith" is all about click the video too.

Stay tuned for my recap of the event. Thanks again, Book Sneeze and to the "Women of Faith" organization...

"Extreme Couponing" Update

Hello Blogville,

Well I figured it was time to check in with you all and let you know how my summer experiment with "couponing" has been going. Ok, you may have noticed that I left out the word "extreme", and I did that for a reason. I now know that I am not cracked up to be an "extreme coupon" person. Actually, I don't think I should use the word "extreme" for anything I choose do in life... My bent is toward obsession, so I should never be extreme :) Ok, I got off on a little rabbit trail there...refocus girl...

Below are things I will take away from my experiment with couponing and I will continue to do these things in my daily life...

- I will clip coupons from the Sunday Paper, but I will try not to keep the coupons I will really never use (IE: contact lens wash-I don't wear glasses :)

-I will look at Sale Circulars, and try to get the best deals on the things my family will use

-I will keep a small stockpile of things that my family uses a lot of (IE: Toiletries) and make sure to purchase those items when they are on sale. Buying in bulk is not a bad thing, and it pays off in the end.

-I will go to more than 1 store in order to get the best deals. I have 1 main store that I get 75% of my items at, but there are 3 other stores that have awesome deals that I will go to when there is a sale on.

-I will make it a habit to not blindly pick up something and buy it without comparison shopping for the best deal and price.

-I will keep visiting the websites that do a lot of the coupon work for me... This pays off big time :)

Well that is all for now... I would love to hear about your coupon experiences too...let me know.

If you missed it the first time...

Hey Friends...

I am writing over at the "A Martha Heart" website today. If you missed my mini run of "The 21 Day Husband Project" make sure to click here and join the AMH website community.

The 21 Day Husband Project (A Trial Run) Day 5

Ok Wives...this is the last day of our mini "Husband Project". I hope you have had a little fun with the projects, and that you may have been challenged to love your husband in a variety of different ways. I know I have.

Ok, I will let you know that I am still working on number 4's project :) We have had so much going on in our household that I barely have been able to get family meals on the table, much less a special treat for my hubby. I will work on it though. Alright, onto Day 5's project :)

Remember you can keep it going by purchasing Kathi Lipp's book "The 21 Day Husband Project"...Let me know if you do :)

Project #5
E-flirt.com
Text or E-mail Some Sweet Nothings


“I turn on my computer. I wait patiently as it connects. I go online. My breath catches in my chest until I hear three little words, “You’ve got Mail.” I hear nothing, not a sound on the streets of New York. Just the beat of my own heart… I have mail, from you.”
Meg Ryan as Kathleen Kennedy in “You’ve Got Mail”



Your Project
Send a flirty text or e-mail to your husband.


Getting Creative
 Use an e-card service (hallmark.com or americangreetings.com) to send a cute and flirty note.
 Don’t know how to text? Ask any teenager in the general vicinity.
 Most phones have a camera feature where you can send a photo message. Be sure to keep it G rated so that he doesn’t get in trouble at work.

The 21 Day Husband Project (A Trial Run) Day 4

Hey Wives... We are almost done with our mini trial of the 21 Day Husband Project. Even though I have not seen many comments, I know that many of you are loving your husbands through these "acts of service" and loving attitudes. Please feel free to jump in here at the blog and let me know how you are doing with the project. After today's project, we will have one more.

So how did I do with Project 3? Actually the idea behind Project 3 has kind of become a way of life for me when it comes to encouraging and affirming my husband... Not because I have always been good at affirming my husband, but actually because I was so bad at it for so many years. Even though I fall short in this area, I have learned how important it is to "lift" up my husband with affirming and encouraging words. I try to say those words to him, but also to others.

So have FUN with Project 4 :)


Project #4

Heart vs. Stomach
A Treat Just for Him


“You can tell a lot about a fellow’s character by his way of eating jellybeans.”
Ronald Reagan


Your Project:
Get a food treat for your husband that he’s not required to share with you or any other family member.


Getting Creative

Stumped for ideas? Here are some thoughts:

Get his favorite pint of Ben & Jerry’s and hide it behind the frozen chicken. Even if you buy it on Tuesday, you’ll have it ready and waiting for his special night later in the week.

Is there a certain cut of meat that your husband loves? How about having the butcher cut something just for him? Most supermarkets will even do the marinade for you – one less thing to think about.

Is there a certain candy that your husband loves from his childhood? Check out www.candywarehouse.com. They have all the nostalgic candy you could want (Black Jack Gum, anyone?) while also carrying any modern favorite you could be looking for.


My husband’s family loves something called “noodles and mashed potatoes” (we lovingly refer to it as “The Starch Fest”). I learned how to make this special dish just for him.


My guy loves the smell of baking almost as much as he enjoys eating the treat. Have some brownies in the oven when he gets home from work or working out. (I know, it negates the workout, but isn’t chocolate always worth it?)


Our friend Scott mentioned that he loves cranberry sauce, but eats it only at Thanksgiving. His wife intentionally made the holiday treat for him this past July.


Are you a wife who is an expert at low-cal salads and other forms of chick-food? Check out The Ultimate Guide to Man Food at www.kathilipp.com for ideas

The 21 Day Husband Project (A Trial Run) Day 3

Hey Wives...
I sort of completed Project 2... I know that my hubby loves football, and his dream would be for me to go to a game with him...so officially I can't complete the project now, but I will be able to when Football season comes (if it comes :) Hold me accountable Ladies... Here is Project 3...



Project #3

You da’ Man
Spreading Great Gossip About Your Guy

Your Project:
Say something nice about your husband to someone else. Make sure you tell him what you said, and to whom.


Getting Creative
Who are the important people in your husband’s life? Your kids, his parents, his friends? Be intentional about who you chat with when you brag on him – it’s almost as important as actually doing it.


Having a hard time coming up with something? I still brag on my guy for things he did years ago. He loves when I tell the story of how brilliantly he proposed (there were waterfalls and stuffed portabella mushrooms involved…).


Here are some other areas to think about when crafting your brag:

His parenting skills
His patience level
The way he treats your mom
His culinary ability
His job

This is me speaking again...It would also be great if you can say it in front of him to another person...double points...

Let me know how you do...

The 21 Day Husband Project (Trial Run) Day 2

Hey Blogville... I am hoping that some of you out there are joining me with taking the 21 Day (actually 5) Husband Project challenge. If you missed Day 1's project, look down a post or 2 and read about Day 1's project. I completed Day 1's project today and it was well received.

Basically, Day 1 said to offer your husband a 30 minute down time for himself. 30 Minutes when he could just relax and do whatever he wanted to do. I didn't get to creative with Day 1's project as I just asked my husband if he wanted some down time (time for himself) when he got home home. Real original I know, but it was to the point. I have to interject a little back story here so you will appreciate his response.

In our early years of marriage my hubby would beg me for what he called some "DT" (down time, decompressing time) when he got home from work. You would think that would not be too much to ask, as he only really needed 15 to 30 minutes of time to compose himself after his long day at work. Well, actually it was difficult, as I was a stay at home mom and the first thing I wanted to do when my hubby got home was either pass a child into his hands, or share with him how stressful my day was...Needless to say, we had a rocky road for a long time until we both learned to be giving to each other.

OK, fast forward to today...when I asked him if he would like some "DT" today, he simply told me that he already gets some "DT" with the way our schedule is currently when he gets home...YEAH!!!! He then told me that he appreciated the thought though...another YEAH moment...(I hope I am using the Yeah word right...I mean that I am cheering... I always get that word messed up with the yes word).

Day 1 complete for me...I hope you all have had a chance to complete Day 1 with your husband...if not, go ahead and try to in the next couple of days, but for those of you who are ready for the next project, here it goes...

Project #2
Back in the Day

Do Something He Enjoyed Before You Got Married

“Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important.” ~ Carl Reiner

Your Project:
Initiate an activity that your husband used to love. Whether it’s his favorite hobby, sport, or pastime, it’s time for you to get involved – be his buddy today.

Getting Creative
Many a man’s hobby has gone by the wayside due to matrimony. Is it possible that it’s time you learned to golf or fly fish? Don’t try to beat him, just join him.

Possibly the only thing your husband would enjoy more than playing chess with you is teaching you how to play chess. Ask for a lesson so he can teach you something that he is an expert at (or really loves). Just your willingness to learn will be a huge boost to your guy.

Pick up a magazine about your guy’s now dormant hobby. Ask him questions about why he loves it so much. Learn a couple of technical terms so that you are better able to discuss it.

Do a little research. Find out what the definitive website is on your husband’s favorite subject. Maybe there’s an event in town, a lecture to attend, or a game to watch.

OK Wives... have fun with this one, and make sure to leave me a comment that you completed this task :)

Mayce (regarding your comment)

Just wanted you to know that I got your comment and I will be praying for your family... Your comment is one reason I share very personally here on my blog...if what I share can be encouraging to another than I feel so extremely blessed...

PS...Wendy, I got your comment too... come back often to visit :)

The 21 Day Husband Project (Sample) Day 1

Ok Wives... Kathi Lipp assistant sent me a preview of her full book, The 21 Day Husband Project. She is allowing us to complete 5 of the 21 days to see if we want to go for the full challenge. Of course the book will go into much more detail about what the "Project" is and the "why" we should take such a challenge like this. If you want to go ahead and purchase Kathi's book, or try out the mini project here to get an idea of what the book is about.

The original idea of the book is that you would complete the project in 21 consecutive days, but for the mini project I will post a new project every other day, as I know not everyone may be on their computer everyday... Remember to leave a comment and let me know you completed Day 1. Anyone can sign on at anytime...


30 Minutes is All it Takes


Create Some Free Time When He Gets Home
“There's never enough time to do all the nothing you want.”
~Bill Watterson, Calvin and Hobbes


Your Project:
Focus on your husbands transitional 30 minutes today. Would he like to be left alone to rest and rejuvenate, or does he want some undivided attention from you? The point is to let your husband know you value what he does out in the world, and that he has a safe loving place to come home and get refreshed at the end of the day.


Getting Creative
There are plenty of reasons why it might not be easy for you to give your husband some transition time at the end of the day. You need to look at what can work for your relationship. Be creative, like the stories listed below. Brainstorm with your friends until you find a situation that will work for you and your guy.


My friend, Joann, purposely scheduled her daughter’s dance classes twice a week at the same hour that her husband gets home from work. That way, her hubby comes home to an empty house. He gets some quiet, and she gets a more peaceful man.


One husband has his workshop out in the garage. His wife encourages him to go
and hang out there for a while before dinner. (Since starting this arrangement, her
husband has started helping out with the after-dinner clean up. Nice side benefit.)


Crockpots are The Husband Project’s best friend. Set your crockpot to be finished
thirty minutes after your husband gets home from work. Let him know that you
don’t need anything until dinner is ready. Don’t know a crockpot from a flower
pot? Check out the recipes in The Ultimate Guide to Man Food at
www.kathilipp.com


Does your husband already have a great transition routine after getting home?
Find some other little thing to bless that time. Maybe it’s making sure the TV is
available, his favorite sweats are clean and ready to be changed into, or there’s a
cold soda waiting for him in the fridge. It may be so small that he doesn’t even
notice. That’s okay – you’ll know what you did.


What if your husband works from home? Maybe the best way to help him relax is
to ask what he would like the schedule to be. Does he want dinner before or after
he gets some time to recharge? Ask him what would make his night better.

Remember to leave me a comment and let me know that you completed your Day 1 Project (you have 2 days before I post the next challenge)

"Made to Crave" Online Group (RESTART :)

Hey Ladies...

So I fell off the "Made to Crave" Wagon... Although I have not gone back to my old eating habits, I surely am not progressing. A standstill with maybe a few steps back. Anyhow, I am back. I just signed up at my Gym to take an 8 week challenge in which I will pushed to my limits and held accountable for my choices. The thing is... I know that no 8 Week challenge is going to conquer my addiction to food. As I see it, I could go through this challenge 3 ways...


1. I can go through and grit my teeth and take the 8 week challenge and be successful...maybe some toning up and weight loss will happen. Then 2 weeks later gain all my weight back :(


2. I go through the challenge and totally blow it...become the "loser" of the team.


Or 3. I get back on track with God and draw on His strength to help me use this challenge as one "tool" to get healthy. I pick back up my "Made to Crave" book and follow the Biblical principles of Lysa's book.


I like the third option, so that is what I am going to do. I don't know where you all are with your food choices and healthy living. The lack of comments can make me think that you maybe struggling like I have been...on the other hand you may be doing well, but just have been quiet here at the Group site. Wherever you are I am encouraging you to jump back in and let's do this thing together!!! (The last comment was for my Facebook friends, but as always anyone online can join in with us at anytime)

I will post another set of questions in a couple of days.. I may start over in the "Made to Crave" book...start reading it from the beginning again... A new start!!!

Blessings

The 21 Day Husband Project (A Trial Run)

Hey Blogville!!! I have a challenge for you all to take if you are interested. A couple days ago I heard Kathi Lipp on Focus on the Family. She was talking about her book "The 21 Day Husband Project". After listening to her speak I was challenged to take her challenge. Here is a snippet of what her book is about... Go to Kathilipp.com for more details...


The Husband Project



Do you feel like your marriage has gone from "I do" to "What did I do?" Recapture the romance that made you and your husband fall in love in the first place. The Husband Project provides 21 days of fun activities to show love and honor to your husband. Kathi Lipp will help you discover:
•Proven ways to return fun and flirting to your marriage.
•Inner assurance to meet your husband's unspoken emotional needs.
•Increased confidence when it comes to meeting your husbands sexual needs.
•New levels of warmth and tenderness in your relationship.
•A deeper sense of security with your husband.
•A greater ability to boost your husband's belief in himself.

Kathi Lipp's assistant sent me a 5 day mini challenge to complete with an online community... If we like the 5 day challenge, then we can go out and buy the book, and then complete the 21 day challenge together and have a celebration at the end of the 21 days.

I am doing this mini challenge with an online Facebook group, but thought to open it up to blogville too. If you are interested, leave a comment and let me know you are on board for the mini challenge (project)... While completing this challenge you can share as much or as little as you want too...just knowing that other women are in this challenge with you will help to keep you going when the "challenges" get tough :)


I am taking this challenge because my husband is in need of some extra encouragement at this stage in his life. Plus when I love my husband well, I am serving God.

I will post the first challenge in a couple of days...let me know if you want to join in :)
Blessings!!!

The Doggy Diaries

The "Pooper Scooper" Crew loving their job :)

Einstein...

Dear Diary,

I got a puppy on Saturday... My family and I have been looking for the right doggy to join our family for over two years now. Well, we finally found him. He is a little tiny puppy and he is a mix of 4 different dogs...doxie, chihuahua, beagle, spaniel mix. Talk about multiple personalities :) His name is Einstein (Einey for short) and he is adorable. Here are some things I have learned in my 3 days as a doggy owner.

-Having a puppy is HARD WORK...what was I thinking?
-Puppies are cute, but they don't look as cute when they "go" on your floor.
-Puppies can get pretty stinky... I can't wait to get that doggy perfume stuff :)
-Puppies don't always follow all the rules...especially those in listed in the all those "puppy" books.
-Puppies are CUTE and can make you smile real easily.
-There is nothing cuter than watching my boys play with their new puppy.
-Having a puppy is going to help develop responsibility for my boys...for me.
-It is super hard to get up in the wee morning hours to let your puppy out to potty.
-Routine and consistency pay off big time when raising and training a puppy.
-I can take my puppy into the Pet Supermarket store with me and shop...that is so cute :)

I will check back in soon and let you know how Einstein is adjusting to his new life. Or to let you know how I am holding up :)

What I Have Already Learned about "Extreme Couponing"

Today I am going to share some tips that I have already learned about the world of "couponing". I don't think what I am doing can be considered "extreme" yet, so I will save the adjective for a later post :)

Tips from a Novice

1.Clip coupons. Get your Sunday paper (or two or three) and start clipping.

2. This kind of goes with tip 1. Save the "sale" adds from the stores you frequent so you are aware of the sales going on during the coming week.

3. Print Coupons from the Internet. There are a zillion sites where you can print coupons, but there really are only a few sites that have valid coupons that you can actually use at a store (In another post I will post some of these coupon sites)

4. Find 1 to 3 reputable, established "coupon" websites or blogs that you can utilize to help you with your couponing. Many of these sites do all the hard work for you (matching sales with coupons). I couldn't coupon if I had to do all the work myself...not enough time :)

5. Find a coupon clipping service. They do all the coupon clipping work and you get all the coupons that you would want. The people that run these services cannot charge you for the coupons, but for their time and handling. I used one so and the fees were not bad at all.

6. Take your last 3 or 4 grocery receipts and write down all the items that you purchase on a regular basis. Write down what you pay for that item (or write the average if the price changes from week to week). This is a crucial step...

I normally shop at Walmart, but was challenged when I went to the "Extreme Coupon Class" to try shopping at the grocery store that sponsored the class. They explained that with coupons and sales there would be times I could get the item cheaper at their Grocery store. They were right, but there are some items that I will get a better deal at Walmart. Having written my list I was able to see what items I could get cheaper at Walmart (especially if I use a coupon at Walmart).

What I realized is that I will probably shop at two stores (My local Grocery Store and Walmart), and that is ok for me. I am going for maximum savings when it comes to my groceries.

7. Don't overlook stores like Walgreens and CVS. They have reward programs that can save you money on certain items. I know Walgreens has their own coupons too.

8. Don't buy what you won't use...even if you have a coupon for it. Resist the temptation and only buy what you will use.

9. Don't be afraid to buy ahead, especially when it comes to toiletries and non perishable items. If there is a phenomenal sale, stock up on those items.

10. Get a friend to join you on your journey with couponing.

(I have learned a few more things, but I will stop with my list of 10 today). Please share any tips you have learned about couponing. Or if you are a novice like myself, feel free to ask a question. I might not know the answer, but I am sure I can find an answer :) Next time, I will give you some websites that have helped me on my journey...

Blessings and Saving... :)

My Summer Experiment with "Extreme Couponing"

Hey Bloggy World...

I am hoping that this summer I will pay more attention to my blog. I think I have noticed a pattern with blogging...many people start out writing all the time, but then after a couple of years they don't write as often. Case in point..ME. Actually for me I have to be careful because I could spend hours and hours on the computer and that would be a waste of precious time for me.

Ok, this post is not about blogging, but about my summer trial run with couponing. It all started after I watched a few episodes of "Extreme Couponing". That show is amazing and always leaves me with my mouth wide opened. The people on the show are very extreme with their couponing and they are able to dedicate way more time to couponing than I will ever be able to do, or would actually want to do. However, the show awakened me to the fact that I could probably do some kind of saving when it comes to my grocery bills, and thus began my journey with couponing.

The thing that really kicked it off for me was an "Extreme Coupon" class that was offered by my local Grocery Store. I was amazed by what I heard, and the speaker that day broke the idea of couponing down so I could get a grasp on it. After the class, I began to think that I could actually do this thing. Not getting $1000 dollars worth of groceries for 47 cents, but maybe, just maybe I could save 25 to 50 percent on my grocery bill.

So I have committed to give this couponing thing my best try for the summer, and when the summer is done I will evaluate and see if "couponing" is something I can sustain without it taking over my life. I have already learned some very cool things and had one trial run to the grocery store in which I saved 50% on my bill. That was exciting...

I don't want to make this post too long, but I will come back here often during the summer to update you on how my journey is going, and to share tips (even though I am a novice). If you coupon, or are interested in beginning your own journey please leave a comment here. It is always more fun to try new things with a "community"...especially an online one :)

Blessings and Savings to you...

Too Much Time Can Be My Enemy...

Hey Bloggy Friends...

A very weighty title for what is going to be such a short post... Actually all the title means is that summer is here and I have a lot of extra time on my hands since I am not working. I teach and so I have my summers off with my children.

I can tell you that I have plenty to do this summer...Clean, organize, purge my household of things I don't need. Then there is the matter of my children... They of course are the most important priority I have during the summer. I don't want them to waste a whole summer playing video games and just waste away mentally at the same time. This summer I want to invest in them more than I have in the past.

I have plenty of ideas of things I can do with my kids. Things that are not just fun for them, but things that will draw us closer together as a family. This summer I not only want us to draw closer as a family, but I want my kids to draw closer to Jesus. I have fallen short when it comes to investing in my kids spiritually, and as time passes by I see that I have no time to waste.

I am very aware that I can make all these wonderful plans to have the best summer ever and everything could go south. Actually, I realize I need to focus in on one thing this summer and I truly believe all else will fall into place. The Bible says to "seek first the Kingdom of God" and that right there is my answer. I personally must seek God first in everything I do this summer. Seeking Him will help me to focus in on the things that truly need to get accomplished this summer and beyond.

So I am going to leave you with a little list of things I am going to do this summer...sort of like an online accountability, and I will check back in this summer to let you know how I am doing.

-Get up early (before kids) several times a week to spend time with God in prayer and in His Word (my bed doesn't count... I have tried this already)
-Turn off the TV, and seek to fill that time with things that will help me in my walk with Christ
-Limit my time on the computer...like the TV I can get lost in the world wide web...both the TV and computer can be big stumbling blocks for me spiritually


Ok, I know this is a short list, but I don't want to get overwhelmed with a never ending list... I truly believe that if I do these things listed above change will happen.

So what about you??? What are your plans for summer? How will you draw close to Jesus this summer? (If you have never commented before, feel free to leave a comment today :)

17 Years

Today is my 17th wedding anniversary. 17 YEARS...that is a big number...Almost half of the years I have been alive :) I wanted to write a little post today in honor of my anniversary. Well, really not in honor, but in praise to God for these last 17 years.

Actually, I wanted the title of this post to be "Divorce is not an option". Those were some of the first words that were spoken by myself and my husband that began the healing and saving of our marriage.

Before I begin, I just want to say that if it had not been for God's intervention, my marriage could have ended in divorce. I take no high road here and act like a divorce could never happen to me, but I do believe that as long as my husband and I keep seeking God individually and as a couple we will not head down that path. I could write a book about this subject, but I will only write a little bit of my story today in hopes of encouraging those who might stumble across my blog and take time to read this post.


Like many young couples my husband and I jumped into marriage without thinking everything through...we loved each other and that is all we thought we needed. Boy, were we wrong. Again, I could really go into a lot of details, but I don't want this post to go on and on. The "get to the point" version of this story is that my husband and I both had issues (emotional baggage) that we brought into our marriage. Since this is my story I will focus in on my issues.

I never lived on my own, basically I went right from living with my parents to living as a wife. I was extremely selfish and I didn't have a clue on how to be the wife that God called me to be. Not to mention that I indulged in a steady diet of Hollywood movies from a young age, and that perpetuated the idea of what romance and marriage should be like...A BIG FAIRY TALE with everyone living "happily ever after". Well, "happily ever after" takes a lot of work.

Take all of that, and add a nice helping of "financial woes", and you have a recipe for a marital disaster. Before I go on, I don't want you to think that all of my early years of marriage were bad, actually my husband and I had many enjoyable seasons in our early years. But we were not dealing with the deeper issues, and that in and of itself would come back to wreak havoc in our marriage.

I had said that I wanted to title this post "Divorce is not an option" that is because during our early years the word "divorce" was thrown around by myself and my husband when we were arguing. Half the time I said that word, I didn't really mean it, I just wanted to hurt my husband or maybe at some level I just wanted out of the conflict, but not out of my marriage. I think I hoped that if I said that word, my husband would suddenly wake up and act more loving toward me, or at least do what I wanted him to do. However, I never realized the damage that came from both of us throwing the word "divorce" around so easily. Not until God opened my eyes to the damage that word could cause.

During those early years, God opened my eyes to many things. One of the biggest things God showed me was that I needed to look in the mirror and stop trying to change my husband. Changing my husband was not my job, but God's job. During that time, I realized that using the word "divorce" was a destructive force in our marriage. I remember one time sitting down with my husband and having the discussion about us not using the word "DIVORCE" anymore. Even if we didn't know what to do to solve our problems, we knew that we would be together figuring it out.

It is time to bring this post to an end, but I have to say that it wasn't the fact that my husband and I stopped using the word "divorce" that saved our marriage. It was that fact that during those early years, I stopped focusing in on changing my husband and sought God to help me change, and God got a hold of my husband's heart as well and changed his heart. God was changing my husband and changing me, and at the same time He was healing and saving our marriage.

17 years later... my husband and and I are still fighting, but not in a bad way...we are fighting for our marriage. We are far from perfect, but we are committed to each other. We have a good marriage that is thriving, and I know that is because God came into our marriage and into both of our hearts and changed us forevermore.

Today on my anniversary I am reminded of God's goodness and God's power to save anyone or anything. Thank you God... You are Life and Love...

Made to Crave Monday (Online Group Meeting 4)

Hey "Made to Cravers". I am back. Sorry it took me so long to get to this week's post. The end of the school year came fast and furious and it never seemed like I had a free moment to post a new set of questions. OK, enough excuses...I am back and ready to finish strong.

Since we have not "met" in over a month, let's do catch up for this week. Personally I have not been doing as good as I had been a month ago. My take on that is that I took my eyes off God as the source of breaking my food addiction, and treated this journey like a diet. Along that same line, after having some success I got into the mindset that I was doing OK, and thus I slacked off on my commitment to becoming free from my food addiction. So, here is to a fresh start...

To my Facebook Group...Make sure to answer this week's questions and hopefully we will get back on our regular weekly discussions. As always, if you drop by my blog and want to join the weekly "Made to Crave" online group, please leave a comment and let us know you are on board with us.

Questions

1. Since we have been on a little break, let's do catch up. Tell me where you are right now on your journey (whether it is breaking the bond of food addiction, or becoming more healthy with your food choices).

2. Have you been reading Lysa's book? If so, how far are you into the book? Anybody finished? What have you been learning from the book? Or like me, did you stop reading for awhile? Are you ready to pick up the book again?

OK, I am keeping the questions simple this week so that we can make a fresh start with this group. Can't wait to see what you all have been doing.

Blessings...

Tyndale Review for "unPlanned" DVD

Click HERE to be directed to a trailer for the DVD...

Recently I was asked if I wanted to participate in Tyndale's Blog Tour for the new DVD "unPlanned", and I instantly said yes because I love to watch any DVD that will encourage me in my Christian walk. Tyndale sent me a complimentary copy of the new DVD titled, "unPlanned", and I in turn must write a review of the DVD on my blog. "unPlanned" is a documentary about Abby Johnson, a clinic director of a Planned Parenthood in Texas. Abby made national news when she left her position as director of Planned Parenthood to join the right-to-life- movement.

I have heard Abby Johnson speak on a couple of Christian radio stations over the last year, but I did not follow her story as it was happening. The "unPlanned" DVD is a Focus on the Family production so I felt that I could definitely trust the views presented in the film. As mentioned, I did have a little bit of knowledge about Abby's story from listening to her on Christian radio programs, but I did not really grasp the whole story until I watched the DVD. I really enjoyed the DVD, and I loved how Abby authentically shared her life story in this documentary. She shares much of her own past that lead her up to her decision to pursue a career with Planned Parenthood, and how she dealt with some of the doubts and questions she had during that time.

One of the things that impressed me was how Abby interacted with the employees from "The Coalition for Life" organization (Pro-Life). In this documentary you will see interviews with the people that were involved with "Coalition for Life", and they discuss how they built a relationship with Abby over many years as she worked for Planned Parenthood. I like that you get to get a glimpse of what some Pro-Life organization are really about, as so many negative views are out there about Pro-Life movements that are radical and the people, judgmental. You will see that the "Coalition for Life" organization reached out to women and wanted to love and encourage them by sharing God's love with them. They fought for the life of unborn children, but they also loved and cared for the women and employees that were at Planned Parenthood.

Overall, I think this DVD was very good and it would be great to watch individually or in a small group. I could even see this resource being used in a Church for the whole congregation, especially those churches that are involved with Pro-Life ministries.

Tyndale has so graciously agreed to give an "unPlanned" dvd away here at my blog. All you have to do is leave a comment and a way to reach you, and I will randomly pick one person next Friday (the 13th) to win the DVD.

If you are interested, there will be an Unite for LIFE free webcast featuring Abby Johnson on May 17 at 8:00 P.M. (in all time zones) at the website, www.uniteforlifewebcast.org . This webcast will benefit pregnancy care organizations and you will be able to purchase "unPlanned" resources at that time. 33% of all purchases will be donated to several crisis pregnancy organizations.

Again, make sure to leave a comment to enter the giveaway for a free "unPlanned" DVD.

Blessings...

Movie Review

Click HERE to see my movie review for the new Faith based film "What if...". I wrote the review for the A Martha Heart Website. Blessings...

Check out my article at the AMH website...

I wrote an article at the A Martha Heart website today...click here to be directed to the site. I have been writing about my journey to become spiritually free from food addiction at the AMH website as well as here at my own blog.

Blessings all...

"Quotes" from Max Lucado (Fear and Temptation)

This quotes (or sections) are from Max Lucado's newest book, "Max on Life"...

(This section is actually from his book "Fearless", but is stated again in his new book)

When fear shapes our lives, safety becomes our god. When safety becomes our god, we worship the risk-free life. Can the safety lover do anything great? Can the risk-averse accomplish noble deeds? For God? For others? No. The fear filled cannot love deeply. Love is risky. They cannot give to the poor. Benevolence has no guarantee of return. The fear-filled cannot dream wildly. What if their dreams sputter and fall from the sky? The worship of safety emasculates greatness. No wonder Jesus wages such a war against fear.

Lately I would describe myself as being in a dry season in my Christian walk...a wilderness of sorts. When I read this quote from Max Lucado in his new book, I took note. Below is an excerpt from Max's new book and it has to do with temptation.

In the wilderness you think the unthinkable.... (Max then mentions about Jesus being tempted) And "one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust" (James 1:14 NASB). Temptation carries you and entices you. What was unimaginable prior to the wilderness becomes possible in it. A tough marriage can make a good man look twice at the wrong woman. Extended sickness makes the stoutest soul consider suicide. Stress makes the smokiest nightclub smell sweet. In the wilderness you think the unthinkable.

For that reason the wilderness is the maternity ward for addictions. Binge eating, budget-busting gambling, excessive drinking, pornography-all short-term solutions to deep-seated problems. Typically they have no appeal, but in the wilderness you give thought to the unthinkable.

I have struggled in both of these areas, and thought it would be beneficial to share what Max wrote here at my blog...

Book Sneeze Book Review- "Max on Life"

I just received Max Lucado's newest release from the Thomas Nelson publishing company (Book Sneeze). Thomas Nelson has given me a complimentary copy of the book, and in exchange I have to write a review of the book. Well, I have reviewed several Max Lucado books, and when his newest book "Max on Life" came out I knew I wanted to review this book as well.

Max's newest book is a compilation of questions that he has received from people throughout his years as a pastor and author. Max tackles 172 of those questions and the questions are divided up into 7 different categories (Hope, Hurt, Help, Him/Her, Home, Haves/Have-Nots, Hereafter). Lucado has truly been given a gift from God when it comes to his writing. He paints pictures with his words and is a master storyteller. Even though this book feels more like a question and answer session, you still get to see Max at his best as he answers questions from people just like you and me.

Lucado fans will really enjoy this book, and those that are not familiar with Max's books will probably like this one because of the variety of topics covered in the book. Lucado does his best to answer the questions that are asked of him according to the Bible. Some of the questions that are in the book are those "tough" life questions that are hard to answer, but Max does answer them. However, Max's answers are short and to the point. They are encouraging, but for those tough questions one should seek God's Word for the answers.

I thank Book Sneeze and Thomas Nelson once again for allowing me to review this new book, and I would definitely recommend you buy it if you are looking for a good book to read. We all have questions in life and I am sure that you will find at least one question you have been wanting to ask someone in Max's newest release.

Made to Crave Monday (Online Group Meeting 3)

Welcome to Week 3 of our "Made to Crave" online study. I waited to post this session so some of my friends could catch up from the last 2 weeks :) Life sure does get busy at times... I have just so thoroughly enjoyed reading the answers to the last two group sessions. There are some amazing women that are taking this journey with me, and I feel so blessed to lead this group. If you are visiting this blog and reading this post for the first time (or tenth time) feel free to join this online group, and to join in on the weekly discussions. All you have to do is just leave a comment. Also, if you have been reading any of these online posts, but have just felt a little shy to join in, go ahead and take the plunge and jump in on the discussion this week...the more the merrier :) Facebook girls...you know what to do (remember feel free to go back and answer any questions you did not get to answer...it is never too late) OK, onto Week 3's questions. QUESTIONS WEEK 3 1. In chapter 3, Lysa talks about getting a "PLAN" in place that works for you...preferably a healthy plan :). Currently, do you have any kind of plan in place when it comes to eating and developing a healthy lifestyle overall? If you answered "no", why not? If you answered "yes", tell us about your plan and if it is working for you, or does it need to be revamped? 2. In chapter 4, Lysa talks about accountability... This online group is a form of accountability, but it cannot replace having an actual person in your life that holds you accountable when it comes to your healthy eating plan (or shall I say healthy living plan)? Do you TRULY have someone in your life that holds your accountable when it comes to your food issues/addiction? If you answered "yes", please share a couple of ways your accountability person helps you? If you answered "no", is it because you don't want an accountability person in your life, or is it that you just have not found a person that can help you as of yet? 3. Please share one victory you have had since you started this group or started reading Lysa's new book. (Remember this is a spiritual battle, so please don't forget to share those victories as well) OK, we will stop at 3 questions this week. For homework, make sure to read Chapters 5 and 6 before our next session. Remember feel free at anytime to go back and answer any week's questions that you may have missed. Blessing to you, and remember as Lysa says, "We were made to crave God, not food" :)

At the "AMH" website... a letter to my younger self...

I wrote an article for the "A Martha Heart" website yesterday. My challenge was to write a note to my younger self... I chose to write a letter to myself when I just had been married... Life was crazy back then, but God had a plan to intervene in my life... I sure needed Him...I still do need Him.

Click here to be directed to the article...

Blessings

"Made to Crave" Monday (Online Group Meeting 2)

Hey All!!!

Welcome to Group session 2 of our online "Made to Crave" study. Currently I have 11 people participating...if you come across this blog and you want to join in, feel free. Just leave your answers in the comment section of this post. Everyone is welcome :) We are all on a journey to be spiritually free from our food issues/addictions.

To my Facebook friends...you have all just blown me away with your honesty and your incredible stories. I am so excited about this group, and my hope is that we all find true freedom in Christ when it comes to our food issues.

Below are this week's questions and homework. Make sure to post your answers in the comment section, or for my FB friends, you can post directly on our group page.

QUESTIONS

1. Go back to last week's post and read all the answers from the group members. Which person do you relate with this most? Or which person's story touched or encouraged you the most? (Please explain why)

2. Currently, what is your number one biggest struggle when it comes to your food issues/addiction?

3. Lysa Terkeurst has said many times that her book "Made to Crave" is not a "how to" book on eating and dieting, but she talked about our "want to" when it comes to breaking our food addiction. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being definitely a yes) how would you rate your "want to" when it comes to truly being free in the area of food issues?

4. If you have joined this group you are already willing to admit your struggle with food is a spiritual issue (or at least that is the direction you are heading)...Lysa talked about how she prayed over and over when she was tempted by food...crying out to God for help. Are you at a point where you are willing to take steps and fight this battle spiritually by praying to God when you are feeling weak or tempted by food.

Ok, I really could go on with more questions, but I don't want anyone to get bogged down with answering to many questions :)

Your homework this week is to read chapter 3 and 4 of "Made to Crave". Blessings and remember this group is open to anyone who wants to join...you can also answer anonymously if you don't want to leave your name or website address.

Blessings Friends... See you back here next Monday for another session :)